I'm Benjamin Solum: a web designer who has been dealing with guys like this since 2003
The site you are on is soluml, which is my online portfolio. Please feel free to check out my work and if you have any comments or feedback I'd love to hear from you. I don't believe that building an online presence requires compromises, you just have to find a designer who is willing to work with you. Will your web designer go that far for you?